Glossary
69
A '69' is a sexual position in which two partners simultaneously engage in a sexual act. oral activity facing each other. This position is so named because the arrangement of the bodies resembles the number "69". In this configuration, each partner is upside down in relation to the other, meaning that the head of one is close to the genitals of the other, and vice versa.
The participants are therefore mutually inverted, like the numbers 6 and 9 in the number 69, hence the name.Â
In a '69', the two partners can give each other pleasure by using their mouths, tongues, hands or any other means to stimulate the other's genitals. It can be a very intimate and sensual erotic experience, as both people are actively involved in pleasuring the other at the same time.
Anulingus
Also known as: rose leaf, rose petal (in reference to the appearance of the anus)
Anilingus is a sexual practice involving oral stimulation (lips, tongue) of the anus and/or perineum of one's partner. In other words, it is sexual stimulation involving oral contact with the anus.Â
There are many expressions to describe this sexual act. In Quebec, we say "se faire manger la cenne", by analogy with the cent (hundredth of a dollar). In Switzerland, a similar expression would be "se faire manger/bouffer la rondelle".
Erotic asphyxia
This practice is also known as choking, breath play or breath control
This practice consists of depriving or restricting one's partner of oxygen during sexual intercourse, generally by strangulation, in order to obtain sexual pleasure.
In the BDSM context, other means are also used, such as gas masks, wet pieces of leather, cellophane and chest compression.
Ballbusting
Ballbusting is a sexual activity that involves stimulating the male genitals, particularly the testicles, by hitting, pressing, crushing or rubbing. This practice is often carried out consensually between consenting adults who share this attraction. However, it is important to note that ballbusting can be potentially dangerous and can cause serious or even permanent injury if practised incorrectly or excessively.
BDSM
BDSM is an acronym that encompasses a variety of sexual practices and dynamics that involve power plays, constraints and intense sensations. The term is often broken down into four parts:
- BDSM :
- Bondage (B): Use of ropes, handcuffs or other objects to restrict movement.
- Discipline (D): Establishing rules and behaviour to be followed, often with sanctions or rewards.
- Sadism (S): Finding pleasure in inflicting pain or humiliation.
- Masochism (M): Finding pleasure in receiving pain or humiliation.
BDSM practices are characterised by the diversity and personalisation of experiences. They can include role-playing, intense physical sensations such as pain or pressure, and power dynamics, where one person takes a dominant role and the other a submissive one. Consent, communication and safety are essential elements in BDSM. The people involved need to discuss their limits and desires and establish clear rules to ensure a positive experience for all parties.
It is important to note that BDSM is practised within a framework of informed and voluntary consent, and that the people involved must respect each other's limits and needs.
Bondage
Bondage is a sexual and erotic practice that involves the voluntary restriction of a person's movements using ropes, ties, ribbons, handcuffs or other accessories. This can include partial or total immobilisation of the body, creating a feeling of vulnerability, control and excitement. Bondage is often used as an element of role-play, domination and submission, as well as to intensify sexual sensations and pleasure.
Boob job
Also known as Spanish hand job, Cuban hand job, notary tie.Â
Breast-jobbing is a human sexual act practised during heterosexual intercourse, consisting of stimulating the man's penis, inserted in the mammary gland, with the woman's breasts. The woman may be positioned underneath, on top of or facing the man, and may be active (moving her breasts) or passive.
This stimulation can lead to male orgasm and ejaculation, but it can also lead to ejaculation following coitus interruptus.Â
Although the practice can be performed in a variety of ways, the main idea is to use a partner's breasts to stimulate the penis, creating a pleasurable sensation of friction and pressure for the man.
For some men, visual stimulation of the breasts can be very exciting and intense. By using this technique, the partner can also experience sensations different from those provided by other forms of genital stimulation.
Coffee pipe
It allows customers, men that is, to consume hot drinks while enjoying a blow job from an escort, all in exchange for a few bucks of course.Â
NB: Studies have shown that "men perform better at work after being satisfied during the morning with a good cup of coffee". And so do women!
Couple
This practice is also known as triolism, or trio.
The person who placed the ad agrees that you can visit them with your partner, who will then participate actively or passively in the meeting, or will simply be a spectator (-> voyeurism, exhibitionism, swinging).Â
Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is an oral sexual practice in which a partner uses their mouth, tongue and lips to stimulate the female sex, in particular the clitoris, vaginal lips and surrounding area. It is usually performed by a man or a woman on a woman, although it can also be performed by people of different genders and sexual orientations.